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What's the difference between sadness and depression?

Sadness is a normal emotion in response to specific events, while depression is a persistent condition that affects daily functioning and outlook on life.

Depression

What's the difference between SSRIs and SNRIs for depression?

SSRIs (Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors) and SNRIs (Serotonin-Norepinephrine Reuptake Inhibitors) are two major classes of antidepressants that work by affecting brain chemistry, but they target different neurotransmitter systems and may be more effective for different people and symptoms.

Depression

What's the difference between stress and anxiety?

Understanding the difference between stress and anxiety is important for recognizing what you're experiencing and determining the most appropriate ways to address your symptoms.

Anxiety & Stress

What's the difference between therapy types like CBT, DBT, and psychodynamic?

Different therapy types have different approaches: CBT focuses on thoughts and behaviors, DBT on emotions and relationships, and psychodynamic on past experiences.

Therapy Navigation

When should I consider switching antidepressants?

Deciding when to switch antidepressants is an important decision that should be made in collaboration with your healthcare provider.

Depression

Why am I losing faith in everything I used to believe?

Spiritual deconstruction often follows major life changes or trauma; questioning beliefs can be part of growth rather than loss, even when it feels disorienting.

Spiritual Doubt

Why can't I just stop using drugs on my own?

Addiction changes your brain chemistry, making it incredibly difficult to stop without support due to intense cravings and withdrawal.

Addiction & Recovery

Why do certain places or smells suddenly make me feel panicked?

Trauma can create powerful associations between sensory experiences and danger, causing your body to react as if the threat is happening again.

Trauma & Triggers

Why does everyone else seem to have their career figured out?

Most people are figuring it out as they go; career confidence often masks uncertainty, and social media creates illusions of clarity that don't reflect reality.

Career & Purpose

Why does everyone else seem to move on while I'm still grieving?

Everyone grieves differently and on different timelines; society often expects grief to end quickly, but your process is valid regardless of others.

Grief & Loss

Why does everything feel pointless when I'm depressed?

Depression creates feelings of meaninglessness by affecting brain chemistry, distorting thinking patterns, and reducing ability to experience pleasure.

Depression

Why does grief feel like it's never going to end?

Grief doesn't end but transforms over time; the intensity decreases while love and connection to the person remain constant.

Grief & Loss

Why does grief feel physical?

Grief affects your body because emotional pain activates the same neural pathways as physical pain.

Grief & Loss

Why does my anxiety get worse at night?

Nighttime anxiety is a common experience that can make falling asleep difficult and leave you feeling exhausted and worried about bedtime.

Anxiety & Stress

Why does my anxiety get worse when I try to relax?

Relaxation can initially increase anxiety because it allows suppressed feelings to surface and breaks familiar stress patterns.

Anxiety & Stress

Why does my chest feel tight when I'm anxious?

Anxiety-related chest tightness is a physical manifestation of your body's fight-or-flight response, not usually a sign of a heart problem.

Anxiety & Stress

Why does my face feel hot and flushed when I'm embarrassed?

Facial flushing when embarrassed is caused by blood vessels dilating in response to stress hormones and emotional arousal.

Anxiety & Stress

Why does my heart race even when I'm just sitting still?

A racing heart at rest can be caused by anxiety, stress, caffeine, or your body's heightened alert state responding to perceived threats.

Anxiety & Stress

Why does my teenager seem to hate spending time with family?

Teen withdrawal from family is developmentally normal as they establish independence, but you can still maintain connection through their interests.

Teen-Specific Questions

Why does my throat feel tight when I'm stressed?

Throat tightness during stress is caused by muscle tension in your neck and throat area, often called a 'globus sensation.'

Anxiety & Stress

Why does talking to AI feel easier than talking to my therapist?

AI feels easier because there's no judgment, cost, or scheduling constraints, but therapy offers genuine human insight, professional expertise, and the healing power of authentic relationship.

Depression

Why do I always end up with partners who are emotionally unavailable?

Attraction to emotionally unavailable partners often reflects your own attachment patterns and unconscious beliefs about love and worthiness.

Attachment Styles & Relationship Dynamics

Why do I always spiral at 2am?

Late-night anxiety spirals happen because your brain is tired, your defenses are down, and problems feel more overwhelming in the darkness and quiet.

Anxiety & Stress

Why do I apologize for everything even when it's not my fault?

Over-apologizing often develops from childhood experiences where you felt responsible for others' emotions or were blamed for things beyond your control.

Communication & Conflict

Explore more questions

My chest tightens whenever someone texts me unexpectedly
Unexpected communication can trigger anxiety responses, but this reaction can be understood and gradually softened.
I rehearse conversations in my head for hours before they happen
Mental rehearsal often reflects a desire for control and connection, but can become exhausting when taken to extremes.
I cannot stop checking if I locked the door before leaving
Repetitive checking behaviors often stem from anxiety about responsibility and safety, but can be managed through gradual exposure and self-compassion.
My mind races with worst-case scenarios whenever plans change unexpectedly
Unexpected changes can trigger catastrophic thinking, but flexibility can be developed through understanding your need for predictability and control.
Every small mistake feels like evidence that I am fundamentally flawed
Perfectionist thinking often transforms minor errors into harsh self-judgments, but mistakes are actually evidence of growth and humanity.
How do I know if I'm truly healing or just getting better at hiding my pain?
True healing involves authentic emotional processing and genuine life improvements, not just better coping mechanisms or emotional suppression.
How do I forgive someone who isn't sorry?
Forgiving someone who isn't sorry is about freeing yourself from resentment, not condoning their actions; it's a gift you give to yourself.
How can I stop comparing myself to others on social media?
Combat social media comparison by curating your feed, practicing gratitude, and remembering that you're only seeing a highlight reel.