How do I help someone who doesn't want help for their addiction?

You cannot force someone into recovery - they have to want it for themselves. However, you can stop enabling their addiction by not giving money, making excuses, or protecting them from consequences. Set clear boundaries about what behavior you will and won't accept. Express your concerns with love but don't make threats you won't follow through on. Take care of your own mental health through support groups like Al-Anon or therapy. Sometimes people need to hit their own rock bottom before they're ready for help. Your job is to be supportive when they're ready, not to rescue them from their choices.