How do I deal with friend drama and gossip?
Teens & Identity
Handle friend drama by staying out of gossip, communicating directly with people involved, and focusing on relationships built on trust and respect.
Friend drama and gossip can feel overwhelming, but try to stay above it. Don't participate in spreading rumors or talking behind people's backs, even if others are doing it. If you have a problem with someone, talk to them directly rather than involving others. Choose friends who are trustworthy and don't thrive on drama. If you find yourself in the middle of conflict, you can say something like 'I don't want to be involved in this' and remove yourself from the situation. Focus your energy on Interpersonal relationship that are built on mutual respect and genuine care.