Why do I attract the same type of toxic people?
Relationships & Divorce
Attracting similar toxic people often reflects unconscious patterns, unhealed trauma, or familiar dynamics that feel 'normal' even when unhealthy.
Repeatedly attracting toxic people often reflects unconscious patterns rooted in your early experiences and unhealed wounds. You might be drawn to familiar dynamics, even if they're unhealthy, because they feel 'normal.' Toxic people are also skilled at identifying and targeting people with certain vulnerabilities like low identity/building-self-worth" class="internal-link">self-value, people-pleasing tendencies, or unresolved Psychological trauma. Breaking this pattern requires developing self-awareness, healing process past wounds, and learning to recognize red flags early in Interpersonal relationship.